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  • Not being able to detail is frustrating!

    The car accident my wife and I were in 2 months ago messed my wife and I both up worse than we originally thought. My doctor referred me to a neurologist and I had MRI of my neck and lower back last week. Tomorrow I should find out if I have to have another back surgery. I had surgery on my back for a ruptured disc in Dec of '08, so my doctor is always worried about my back.

    Anyway, two months later I'm still having back and neck pains and it's keeping me from getting a full detailing fix. Today, the weather was perfect for detailing. It was sunny and 65 or so. I thought I was going to finish the projects I started last week, but I just didn't have the energy. I managed to wash both cars, work a little on the stains on the front seat of my car, and vacuum and dress the wife's interior and clean the engine bay.

    I was planning to hit both cars with the polisher again as the bright sun today revealed swirls that I hadn't been able to see last week because it was cloudy. Both cars also needed to be waxed and my wheels really needed a good scrubbing. I just didn't have the energy to do it all and my neck and back wouldn't stop aching long enough for me to finish things to the level I wanted them.

    In the past, detailing has been a good stress valve for me, but now it seems like it's another source of stress because I can't do as much I could in the past my cars aren't up to par. That bugs me really bad because I know that when I am feeling better it will be twice the work to get the cars where I want them because I haven't been able to keep them up.

    I keep telling my self it's not the end of the world, but every time I see the swirls I get bugged all over again.

  • #2
    Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

    Just have to go for shiny swirls till you feel better.
    2017 Subaru WRX Premium - WR Blue

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    • #3
      Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

      IMHO you need to find something else for a little while that allows you to relax. It's much more important that you get better rather then putting stress on your body. It's just going to add time to your recovery. I know exactly where you are coming from... I work from my house and every once in awhile take a 20 minute break during the day and clean up the car a little. After work, I might spend an hour or two working on a few panels. It's just nice to see what you've done and how nice the paint looks.

      But try to find something else that relieves some stress... at least until you start to feel better.

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      • #4
        Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

        Sorry to hear that your still not doing better. Don't worry about the car. Focus on getting better.
        quality creates its own demand

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        • #5
          Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

          I realize that there are more important things in life than my cars. Having the joy taken out of something I like is probably what's bugging me the most. If the cars get too dirty, I can hit a drive through knowing it might add swirls, but at least they'll be clean and I can remove the swirls when I feel better.

          This isn't the end of the world but missing out on something I enjoyed prior to the accident is a bummer. I have resigned my self to the fact that the best I can do is figure out which things are most pressing and try to do them before I get too sore or tired to do it.

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          • #6
            Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

            The most important thing is to get both you and your wife back to full recovery. The swirls will be there waiting for you to correct them, whether that's next week, next week or later in the summer. Fix yourself first!
            Michael Stoops
            Senior Global Product & Training Specialist | Meguiar's Inc.

            Remember, this hobby is supposed to be your therapy, not the reason you need therapy.

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            • #7
              Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

              Have you thought about contacting one of the MOL members that's local to you to see if they can take on some of the steps you aren't able to do yourself for the time being?

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              • #8
                Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

                Originally posted by boiler7904 View Post
                Have you thought about contacting one of the MOL members that's local to you to see if they can take on some of the steps you aren't able to do yourself for the time being?

                No, I haven't thought of that. I think I'll take Mike's advice though and just know that I have projects waiting on me when I feel up to it.

                I can manage to wash them ok so it's not like they are totally neglected. Running the DA, and getting down on my hands knees to scrub wheels and carpets is just too much.

                I am hoping to talk my son into helping me. Maybe I can guilt him into giving me a hand and teach him a thing or two while we're at it.

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                • #9
                  Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

                  Plus you can teach a skill & have some bonding time with your son. Hope taht works out!

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                  • #10
                    Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

                    Originally posted by agp56 View Post
                    Plus you can teach a skill & have some bonding time with your son. Hope taht works out!
                    He hates car chores and since I enjoy them, I try not to force him since he'll be grumpy and ruin my fun.

                    He did tell me the other day that he was disappointed in the way I was keeping the car I just got. He said I was slipping because there is what appears to be a bleach stain on the pass side floor mat. He proceeded to lecture me on resale value of a well kept car. Guess he's been listening after all Did I mention he's only 11?

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                    • #11
                      Re: Not being able to detail is frustrating!

                      Sounds like he has at least been listening......

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