Rough break up :(

[Ganesa]

Re: Rough break up

hey buddy,
feel sorry to hear your story...

have faith and always stay optimistic and postive about everything... and I am sure God has great plans for your life...

and if she really didnt have the same feelings for you, you are way better being single, rather than her suddenly cheating on you and really hurt your feelings... As long as you keep yourself healthy and occupied with something, I am sure you will get a way better replacement very soon...

[dave40co]

Re: Rough break up

There is an old saying, "Nice guys finish last." I am a nice guy and was dumped by a girl 32 years ago. I hurt a long time. Then BAM out of nowhere I met this beautiful women that has been my wife for 28 years, I don't believe in old sayings. Keep your head held high and stay healthy and focused. Join a church group, do some volunteer work etc. That is where you will find a good lady. Best of luck to you.

[Jossy92]

Re: Rough break up

Lot of people pulling for you. Don't be afraid of the pain, as it seems to help you detail.
Maybe the will pain make it so you will be there for someone else, as you will have "been there and done that."

[buddy89]

Re: Rough break up

Hey MOL family...

The invisible, you are right, it does sound like everyone else has been dumped lol
Its good to know ive got you lot, and detailing to fall back on lol...

Thanks
Buddy

[the_invisible]

Re: Rough break up

Thanks to Mark, Micheal and the rest of the MOL family for you input... Appreciates it muchly... Will be a difficult time thats for sure Will definitely take you advice Mark and hopefully it shall help...

No problem man! As long as we do not resort to vicious name callings of our ex's we should be fine.

From reading all the informative replies in this thread, it seems that many people here are experienced in getting dumped!

You're not alone

[buddy89]

Re: Rough break up

Thanks to Mark, Micheal and the rest of the MOL family for you input... Appreciates it muchly... Will be a difficult time thats for sure Will definitely take you advice Mark and hopefully it shall help...

[buddy89]

Re: Rough break up

Thanks to Mark, Micheal and the rest of the MOL family for you input... Appreciates it muchly... Will be a difficult time thats for sure

[the_invisible]

Re: Rough break up

hey buddy89, check out this thread...

[Markus Kleis]

Re: Rough break up

There is really no way to artificially "end the pain" early. You are going to face a rough period, usually around a month, followed by a gradual healing process. The first month will be rough, just prepare yourself for it.

Be smart, don't rush out and do things you may later regret to forget her.

Try to involve yourself in HEALTHY activities: working out, jogging, hanging out with friends (doesn't mean hitting bars and clubs), hanging out with family, working on your car, etc.

Accept the fact that what happened is done, value yourself, your health, and life, and then do your best to accept the fact that you need to move on. It won't be immediate, and it won't be easy. BUT, you will survive and after the first month or so it will get easier with each passing day.

Good luck, and keep your chin up.

[mcox]

Re: Rough break up

check your pm's

[BrianPow84]

Re: Rough break up

Drive out here to michigan and hang out for the night i will hook you up with a few beers and plenty of women

[JimboB5]

Re: Rough break up

Agree with James... another will come, probably when you least expect it; has ALWAYS happened to me that way [ go looking and find nothing, focus on YOU and what you want to do and BAM! there she is ] In the short term, a friend advised me once to go out for a beer, after a few you'll be calling her a B____! Just kidding, my man. But the focusing on you part is for real. Hang in there.

[ColonelCash]

Re: Rough break up

Good advice to move on, there are PLENTY of girls out there. I know it stings, but just think about all the free time you can spend detailing now!

[Autobrite]

Re: Rough break up

Sorry to hear that man. I know how you are feeling. I was with a girl for a long time and actually thought I was going to marry her. We ended up going our separate ways. I never really got over her until 8 years later. Happy to say though that we ended up getting back together and recently got married. There is a plan for everyone and if you just give it enough time it will all work out. Maybe not with her but with someone.

[willhawk]

Re: Rough break up

When I was in 10th grade my English teacher told me this about breakups:

"If you love something set it free. If it comes back it was meant to be.

The guy was British so I sounded even funnier with a cockney accent.

Sorry if that didn't help.