Welcome note

[Eddie6th]

Hello staff at Meg's. At the top of the page it only lists 'personal messages'. I've got a habit of not checking mails because if it says '0' unread,i don't go. Is it possible to see a similair note but also with visitor messages and also requests,such as freinds? Even something like a small light that flashes to let you know or a cool set of traffic lights.
Also when you sign in,there is a list of online members.Is it possible to have your freinds listed first,if they are online of course.


Thanks,eddie.