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    Rough break up :(

    Hey everyone

    Just been through a rough break up with the girl...

    Really struggling to get over her and cant stop thinking about her...

    Any idea how to get over her? want this pain to end...

    Thanks in advance

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    Re: Rough break up :(

    Did you try getting her back?

    If the break up is final, then put away everything that can remind you of her!! ( presents, photos, )

    Keep yourself occupied with something you enjoy doing. Going out with friends, having fun, and of course, detailing cars.

    And most importantly, always think on the positive side.

    A break up can lead to another great girl that may be better than the last one. Think of all the joys of being single, having no worries.

    Good luck, I was dumped harshly by a girl once and the pain only lasted a few months at most.

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    Unhappy Re: Rough break up :(

    Thankls james0509,

    No havnt tried getting her back, she didnt have the same feelings as me so no use trying to force my feelings upon her... Threw everything away she gave my like you said mate, but still think about her alot... cant wait to find another girl, i love being in a relationship and i hate the single life... I feel obliged to go out and meet people, even when i dont want to... yes detailing cars has been a big thing over the last few months, one of the only things that take my mind off things... always thinking about her with another guy and that makes me feel depressed, to the point i feel sick... i know i cant control what she does in her life and i dont want to, but yeah, alot of heart ache and want it all to end...

    Thanks

    Buddy

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    Re: Rough break up :(

    Seriously bro move on , I know it must be real hard to do it but it is a MUST. I am sure you have plenty of friends and family to go to and don't force yourself to meet someone new cause it won't be your true feelings for the new girlfriend and in the long run you will not be happy. Only time will heal the pain but keep active it will go away quickly

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    Re: Rough break up :(

    Thanks sudz

    yeah mate, trying to find another girl already and yeh, think i am trying to force things but i thought by finding someone else i might forget about the other.... but i shall take it as it comes i suppose..

    thanks

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    Re: Rough break up :(

    When I was in 10th grade my English teacher told me this about breakups:

    "If you love something set it free. If it comes back it was meant to be.

    The guy was British so I sounded even funnier with a cockney accent.

    Sorry if that didn't help.
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    Re: Rough break up :(

    Sorry to hear that man. I know how you are feeling. I was with a girl for a long time and actually thought I was going to marry her. We ended up going our separate ways. I never really got over her until 8 years later. Happy to say though that we ended up getting back together and recently got married. There is a plan for everyone and if you just give it enough time it will all work out. Maybe not with her but with someone.
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    Re: Rough break up :(

    Good advice to move on, there are PLENTY of girls out there. I know it stings, but just think about all the free time you can spend detailing now!
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    Re: Rough break up :(

    Agree with James... another will come, probably when you least expect it; has ALWAYS happened to me that way [ go looking and find nothing, focus on YOU and what you want to do and BAM! there she is ] In the short term, a friend advised me once to go out for a beer, after a few you'll be calling her a B____! Just kidding, my man. But the focusing on you part is for real. Hang in there.

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    Re: Rough break up :(

    Drive out here to michigan and hang out for the night i will hook you up with a few beers and plenty of women

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